Afraid that having children with her “ugly” but otherwise great husband would cause them to end up looking horrible, a Ghanian woman allegedly decided to secretly have four kids with her handsome ex-boyfriend.
African social media has been awash with news of a vain Ghanian woman who married a successful, hardworking, and caring man despite his less than adequate looks. The fact that he was ugly, by her standards, didn’t bother her much until they decided to try for a baby. She loved everything else about him, but she couldn’t risk giving birth to ugly children, so she always made sure to take birth control pills after sleeping with him. At one point, they went to a fertility clinic and they both turned out to be healthy, which the woman already knew, so in order not to raise her husband’s suspicion, she came out with a twisted yet ingenious plan…
The anonymous woman detailed her diabolical plan in a letter to Accra-based radio station Hitz FM, revealing that in order to make sure she gave birth to attractive children, and also make her husband happy, she decided to contact her handsome ex-boyfriend. He was also married, but he had always been promiscuous, so it wasn’t hard for the woman to convince him to have an affair.
In order to avoid unnecessary drama, the woman always told her lover that she had taken birth control, when in fact she had meant to get pregnant. She would then sleep with her husband as well, to make him think that he had impregnated her. This way, she was the only one who knew who her beautiful children’s father was.
The woman’s plan worked beautifully, and she was allegedly able to give birth to three attractive children, with the fourth on the way as well. Unfortunately, things got a little complicated recently, after her husband won an American visa lottery. She claims that the process also requires DNA tests for the applicant’s family at some point, which will reveal that the kids are not really his.
The concerned woman asked the radio show host how best to handle the situation, tell her husband the truth now, or wait until the test result comes in.
Massage is a general term for pressing, rubbing and manipulating your skin, muscles, tendons and ligaments. Massage may range from light stroking to deep pressure. It is usually done by people who specialised in the field. They are called Massage Therapists. A massage therapist is someone who treats clients by using touch to manipulate the soft-tissue muscles of the body. With their touch, massage therapists relieve pain, rehabilitate injuries, reduce stress, increase relaxation, and aid in the general wellness of their clients.
Massaging is not a gender-specific job hence both males and females can work as massage therapists. However, depending on the location and culture, the clients for the massage therapist may differ. While some people believe that both males and females could go for a body massage from the opposite gender, some consider it as something which is not proper.
<p class="has-drop-cap" value="<amp-fit-text layout="fixed-height" min-font-size="6" max-font-size="72" height="80">Twitter users from Nigeria were recently thrown into a debate after someone identified as Nappy Blaze asked a question regarding some pictures of a massage therapist he shared on his timeline. Taking to his Twitter account this morning, Nappy Blaze asked if men will allow their partners to be massaged by a male therapist or not.Twitter users from Nigeria were recently thrown into a debate after someone identified as Nappy Blaze asked a question regarding some pictures of a massage therapist he shared on his timeline. Taking to his Twitter account this morning, Nappy Blaze asked if men will allow their partners to be massaged by a male therapist or not.
In his words, he writes, “Guys will you allow another man to do this type of body massage for your woman?” The question sparked various reactions from Twitter users. Most people responded that they won’t allow it because it is not proper to allow another man to be touching your wife in the name of massaging. However, few people opined that they could allow it, after all, it is just body massaging and nothing more. Check out some of the reactions below:
Paternity tests are big business because women aren’t trusted
96% of women are liars, honest “The Scotsman, EDWARD BLACK,”
NINETEEN out of 20 women admit lying to their partners or husbands, a survey on attitudes to truth and relationships has found.
Eighty-three per cent owned up to telling “big, life-changing lies”, with 13 per cent saying they did so frequently.
Half said that if they became pregnant by another man but wanted to stay with their partner, they would lie about the baby’s real father.
Forty-two per cent would lie about contraception in order to get pregnant, no matter the wishes of their partner.
And an alarming 31 per cent said they would not tell a future partner if they had a sexual disease: this rises to 65 per cent among single women.
In the poll of 5,000 women for That’s Life! magazine, 45 per cent said they told “little white lies” most days. The favourite untruth was “of course you don’t look fat”, with “these shoes were only 10” in second place.
Jo Checkley, the editor of That’s Life! , said that while many women now lied to avoid hurting their partner’s feelings, covering up the truth about a baby could have far Read More ..maging consequences.
She said: “Modern women just can’t stop lying, but they do it to stop hurting other people’s feelings. It could be argued that these little white lies simply make the world go round a little Read More ..oothly. But to tell a man a baby is his when it’s not, or to deliberately get pregnant when your partner doesn’t want a baby, is playing Russian roulette with other people’s lives.”
If you got caught cheating, your marriage does not necessarily have to end. Even though admitting an affair to your spouse will cause much heartache and anger, your marriage can survive. But this will only happen if you truly regret your decision to cheat. If you decide to confess an affair, make sure you are doing it for the right reasons, not just to get rid of your own guilt.
Do you suspect your spouse or significant other of cheating? Find out now with the infidelity DNA test. Although the test results are not admissible in court, the infidelity DNA test answers can help you uncover the answers you need. DNA testing provides a conclusive way to find out if someone is cheating on you. If a practitioner is able to confirm or deny the presence of male/female DNA on suspicious items such as undergarments, sheets, clothing, condoms, etc. Once confirmed that the item does contain DNA, a powerful DNA comparative analysis can be carried out to identify the DNA source (was it yours or someone elses?).
Married woman begs ex-Boyfriend to impregnate her, see leaked Facebook chat
To this end, many medical practitioners took to the social media space to admonish men to carryout DNA test. The case of many men fathering other men’s children is on the rise, and will continously be because of the fact that many young ladies marry who is ready, and not who they love.
These screenshots below will further confirm that this menace is eating deep and will continue if not curbed. What is your take on this? Follow, like, and share for more content. Thank you.
I dont know where to start. I have been with my man for two years now and we have a son who is one-year-old. We come across as a perfect family but it’s all a lie. I cheated on my man and fell pregnant. In order not to jeopardise my relationship, I decided to lie about the paternity of the child. This worked out perfectly well because the real father of my child was denying paternity anyway. He recently called me to say that he would like a relationship with his son but I’m afraid the damage is already done. Do I save my relationship and ignore this man or do I tell the truth and suffer the consequences? Kelly
THE truth is, there’s an untold number of men that are unknowingly raising children who aren’t their own biologically. A woman falls pregnant and is either unsure of who the father is, or as is often the case, she knows who the father is but prefers a different man to father her child. This is called paternity fraud.
The thing is, whether you’re married and trying to conceal an affair, or you consider your current boyfriend as more reliable to father your child, consciously deciding to lie about your child’s paternity can have a devastating impact on all involved after some time. Years may pass, but when the truth comes out, as it often does, the consequences are life-changing.
Everyone involved will suffer the emotionally devastating impact, which may well be accompanied by equally devastating legal and financial consequences. More directly, the child will suffer, and so will both men. And believe it or not, both the false father and biological father as well as the child could have legal claims against you at a later stage.
Your child will suffer the untold pain of re-orienting his relationship with a man he was raised to believe is his father once the truth comes out. Children, you always have to keep in mind, build their entire lives around and are totally reliant on the information given to them by their parents as they grow. Their entire security, identity, self-confidence and self-worth stands on the shoulders of those that play the parental role in their lives on a day-to-day basis. And they trust everything they are given by those playing mom and dad in their lives.
Pulling the carpet about who the real father is, is tantamount to erasing that trust, identity and all the security they’ve built around a life they thought they had – but later found out was all a farce. In your case, your son is still a year old. Perhaps the devastation on him won’t be as much, if you decide to come out now with the truth.
The false father
Your current boyfriend deserves to know the truth. Sure, you have no control over how he will deal with the whole soapie, but it’s his right to know. He’ll be disappointed, angry and may even never want to have anything to do with you, but he has to know the truth and it must preferably be initiated by you. You’ll have to press through the guilt, shame and embarrassment, but you’ll be doing the right thing. You cannot cage someone in the name of love, especially through lies, deceit and a potential criminal act. Lay it all out for him, give him the right to respond anyway he chooses, and deal with the aftermath.
The biological father
It’s disappointing that the biological father first denied the paternity of the child, and you have every right to hold him accountable for that action in order for him to square up with you. However, it’s great that he wants to step up, and take responsibility for his child. He not only has a legal duty to do so, it’s also his right to have a relationship with his biological child irrespective of your relationship status. He may have acted like a jerk initially by running away from his responsibility, but you owe it to your child and the false father to reveal the truth.
If you don’t do so now, not only is the child growing up, but your current man is forming a stronger bond with the child as his own every day. In addition, you may have the whole situation blown up on your face by the biological father who may be impatient with the whole situation and act insensitively and in a manner that’s out of your control. After all, unlike you and the false father, he really doesn’t have much to lose in all this.
Even this old man could not resist the body of this hot lady. He was caught starring at her body
Lustful looking is so tacky, isn’t it? You know when you see guys ogling some woman up and down how repulsive it is. And most of us know the feeling of being that guy too. But beyond that, there are a few reasons why lustful looking is so damaging. Never mind that its hurtful to our spouses.
Moving beyond it: Amusing pictures of an elderly guy who was captured in the camera by the people who were performing the wonders. People are shocked at how this old guy, despite seeing this lovely young woman, struggled to keep himself intact.
Some people are stunning in the sense that most men can’t keep their eyes away from them. Beauty is a talent, and no one should get it. People are creative in their own peculiar and unusual way. What we see in this photo is an African lady who is phenomenal in all angles
There’s nothing wrong about admiring someone’s body. It’s a tradition that ladies want to respect each other with elegance, body intelligence, design and other stuff in their lives. This is the standard that most people talk about.
This image of a guy who couldn’t hang on to the beauty of this lady was impressive to people when they asked themselves a number of questions. This guy is completely shocked, and he’s not ready to take his eyes off this woman.
It’s the essence of a guy to be charmed by her. A man is still impressed, waiting for a pretty lady. There is simply no reason for this guy to look at this lady in this manner. He admires the body of this woman, and that’s it.
Many individuals have their own views on the basis of history or practice. Some say that there’s no chance a reasonable man would look at a lady like this in public. Those that are natural and love each other will glance at a lady with a wink of an eye and automatically take her eyes off without being noticed.
What is shocking again is that this guy is elderly, because in circumstances like this, one would imagine a young man and boys to be captured in tape. It is obvious that even the aged are human beings, and the fact that they age does not mean that they are blind and that their eyes cannot see wonderful objects.
These pictures obviously demonstrate a guy who performs the best. It can be shown that he was captured in a video in the streets, purchasing some fruit from street vendors. He met this lady who came to buy fruit just like him, and that’s when things began getting intense.
This woman, the way she’s dressed, may be the explanation why this guy was triggered and took all his focus in a split second. She’s wearing a short that keeps her really close, and this attracted almost every man’s eye as she walked down the street.
This woman is a traditional African woman. She’s unstoppable, and there’s no question about it. African people are stunning, and you can’t equate them to those from other continents. The elegance of this lady is extraordinary to the point that even an elderly guy does not keep his own.
On seeing these pictures, many Nigerians went into investigation and concluded they were fake and photoshopped.
Some persons called her a liar while some went as far as calling her a clout chaser. Seeing as Dangote didn’t react publicly to her claims, people felt she was actually lying.
The sensational clip comes a day after an American restauranteur alleged that Africa’s richest man, Aliko Dangote, dated her and broke her heart in ‘‘1000 pieces.’’
The controversy over Aliko Dangote is turning murkier by the day. On New Year’s Day, an American restauranteur identified as Bea Lewis, broke the internet when she alleged that the Nigerian industrialist, dated her and broke her heart in ‘‘1000 pieces.’’
Few hours ago, she took to her Instagram story to post another photo and also give a piece of her mind.
Seh wrote, “I do not know how to use Photoshop or face altering apps. Not do I sneak and take pictures while the person is looking away.”
Attached to the post was another picture she allegedly took with Dangote after a routine workout.
In less than two months after End SARS protests was organised in different parts of the country, it seems like more is still coming after it. There have been several complaints regards the rate in which people were manhandled by police officers which led to the said Protests.
<p class="has-drop-cap has-vivid-red-color has-text-color" value="<amp-fit-text layout="fixed-height" min-font-size="6" max-font-size="72" height="80">Based on that note, a certain twitter user revealed that a heavy protest is presently going on in Tejuosho road in Lagos. According to the tweet and the video posted, mothers were seen in their numbers carrying placards, chanting, "we want justice." Some of the placards they were carrying have inscriptions like "we match for our children"Based on that note, a certain twitter user revealed that a heavy protest is presently going on in Tejuosho road in Lagos. According to the tweet and the video posted, mothers were seen in their numbers carrying placards, chanting, “we want justice.” Some of the placards they were carrying have inscriptions like “we match for our children”
These are some of the screen shot that were gotten from the video.
This is really a welcome development. Things should be done and be done properly. It’s is said that for there to be peace in any given place or environment, there must be justice. It was on the news today that the Nigerian Police has written to court for them to suspend the EndSARS panel all over the country, which might be the main reason why these mothers took to the street to show their anger and displeasure.
Harassing women for their attention on bed with bid to help them get higher recommendation by superior officers is not strange in this part of the world, in fact, some officers and some bosses at work likes to sleep with their junior officers despite having their own wife at home. Why is this rampant in this part of the world?
15 police women were impregnated at the same period by 2 trainers , does that really make sense at all? How many months is police traning? How come 15 trainee are pregnant at the same time? That means the harrassment must have been happening frequently.
The entire police force has been thrown into serious confusion after 2 police trainers who are also police officers are said to have impregnated over 15 women during their training.
The Head of Police Service was compelled to enforce compulsory investigation after these female trainees got pregnant at the same period. The Mozambique police boss have to send the alledged 2 officers on compulsory leave and then begin investigation into the mysterious matter of pregnancies that came at the same time.
The findings shows the decadency in police academy where trainers and senior officers coerced female trainees into having intercourse with them in order to give favorable terms.
The 2 trainers were placed between a panel of investigatt and were found guilty of the offense against female police women. A female non governmental organisation(NGO) was on the forefront seeking justice for the women.
The most shocking part of the story is that those 2 trainers were dismissed from the police service, how come they were dismissed? I thought they were going to land in jail.
Ever wonder how some women are able to catch and hold some men indefinitely, even against the wish of the man. And when it is no longer palatable to them, certain men find it incredibly difficult to get out of certain relationships. Worse still, even though the relationship becomes counterproductive, the men stay there.
In fact, in certain instances, these men basically become toys in the hands of these women, not necessarily because they are too strong or tough for such women, but because they have some items they may have literally trapped them with. Some of these relationships are not aimed at marriage, but a woman can take advantage of these circumstances or strategies, whether the man is married or not, to hold a man under her influence for her selfish gain.
In offices / workplace, courtship / marriage, education, online, community, religious centers, etc., these relationships may be Here. are 12 most dangerous ways women in relationships permanently trap men;
1. Sharing Secrets
Some men have no idea of how to keep secrets. Without thinking of the consequences, they speak carelessly. There are some secrets that a man, even if he intends to marry her, should not share with a woman. If a secret significantly affects the two persons involved, a man must learn to keep certain stuff to himself in a marriage-oriented relationship. I saw, for instance, where a woman killed her boyfriend because he shared a secret that his university degree was fake. She revealed the code to the superior authorities when he jilted her and he paid dearly for it. Do you know what Samson, in the Bible, destroyed? Hidden sharing!
Secret sharing often means possessing a ‘unique’ secret that is popular between two individuals. So, if you don’t want a woman to trap you in a relationship, watch out for Sharing a Secret.
Blackmail is one common method women use at any level to trap men in relationships. In dealing with some ladies, some men are not wise. As a consequence, if they abandon them or do something to them for some reason, these women usually have one thing or the other for which they try to blackmail those men. Moreover, to get some of their selfish needs met, they can use bribery as well. If you are a man, no matter who you relate to at any stage, avoid something that will give a woman room to blackmail you, otherwise, even if it is against your desire, you could remain stuck with that woman.
While this may seem old, this act is still performed by some citizens. She will keep him stuck for the rest of his life if a woman can get a man to take an oath or vow with her. Breaking a covenant or oath, particularly those related to human blood or sacrifice, is not easy. At distinct stages, like public office holders, individuals take oath / covenant. Some, including marriage, corporation, etc., are also legally binding. Some are spiritual too. However, I advise men to be very cautious when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex, since a woman may use a covenant to keep a man permanently imprisoned.
4. Crocodile Tears
When it comes to shedding tears, the majority of women are experts. As it is common with women, some tears can be real. On the other hand, for the reason of drawing undeserved sympathy, certain tears are crocodile tears. Usually, such tears have ulterior motives attached to them. For deceptive intentions, they are. When women begin to weep, men be cautious because others can use it to make you loose your defenses and you end up making wrong choices. In a relationship you do not like, those options do involve staying stuck with them.
This one is the mother of all of them. Yeah. Yeah. Most women are fond of using pregnancy in a relationship to permanently trap us. Syndrome of ‘baby mama’. Sadly, if a man doesn’t want to have a pregnancy, it becomes a problem. He may ask her to abort it and she may refuse to abort it. Abortion is not promoted here, by the way. Some women do not even tell the man that once the pregnancy is nearly full term, they are pregnant. Men, here, you need to be alert. If you do not want a child, then avoid doing what produces one for you, otherwise a woman will use it to keep you stuck for life, even if you do not marry her!
6. Record Keeping
Many women are, by default, experts in record keeping. A man easily forgets any of his dealings with a woman and then gets surprised when she gives him information about his dealings with her. Mind you, as a male, she is more likely to keep records of any illegal affair or dealings you have with a woman-whether recorded, audio recording, video recording, etc. In the future, she might also use them against you if you are not careful. Now, remember that record keeping is one of the ways a woman in a relationship can permanently trap a man.
Many men like to make promises to women-even those they don’t want to fulfill. While a man may considers his commitment to be unsustainable, a woman hangs on every word that he says. Men, be mindful of yourself and stop making false promises to women. They can be used by a woman to keep you stuck in a relationship.
When a man lives compromisingly, especially one who should be known for moral values, a woman may use it to gain an upper hand over him. Among religious leaders and people in high places of authority, this is very popular. They have built a loophole in their credibility if they are doing anything that society frowns at. Be careful how you compromise norms, especially if a woman is directly involved or she is conscious of it, whether you are married or not. This will encourage her to keep you trapped for life! Live right and you’re going to have peace of mind.
The old saying that “the road to the heart of a man is his stomach” is still in vogue. Every man appreciates good food. Take it or leave it. It is most likely that a woman who knows how to cook fine, sumptuous and tantalizing food would gain an upper hand over one who does not. It is also through food that some women offer the ‘Love part’ to men. Pay attention to what you eat and how you eat from a woman who’s not your mom. She will use it to trap you in a relationship that is irreversible.
Body form, dressing and physical grooming are included in appearance. Some men are glued, only because of their appearances, to certain women. Just to keep a man forever stuck in a relationship, some women can go to any extent to spend money on their looks. They know that from what they see, men are shaken. Why are some women spending a lot on plastic or cosmetic surgery, do you think? Why do you think that certain women are provocatively dressed? Appearing!!!
11. Constant Presence
A ton matters presence. It is easier for a man than one who is not to be stuck with a woman who is always present. This is why some women even move shamelessly into the house of a man without being married to him legally. Men, if you don’t want to be permanently trapped by a woman, avoid her constant presence, whether physically or through online chat.
12. Outrageous Gifts
In order to keep them under their thumb, some women will use their last penny to buy outrageous presents for men. Men, this is your warning. She will use it to keep you stuck for life if you accept an outrageous gift from a woman, a gift that you realize you can’t afford to pay back. Avoid living a life that you are unable to afford!
I hope you’ve finally learned something from this. What other risky ways can a woman keep a man stuck in a relationship permanently?
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Abakaliki- Hundreds of women from four communities of Nkpoghoro, Ugwuegu, Ohaisu and Itim in Afikpo North L.G.A have taken to the streets of Afikpo town in Ebonyi state protesting destruction of their farm produce by herdsmen.l
They chanted songs, carried sticks in their hands, called on the state and federal governments to wade in to the matter before their people retaliated.
Their grievances were on alleged high rate of destruction of their farm produce by the Fulani herdsmen.
According to their spokes person, Madam Ogwu Idume, their rice and cassava farms, including streams which is the source of drinking water in the farm areas had beendestroyed, polluted.
“Several efforts have been made previously through discussions with the head of the Hausa and Fulani community in Afikpo with no results”, she stated.
The protesters went through Eke Market and the Local Government Council headquarters.
The Coordinator of Afikpo North L.GA Mrs Amuche Otunta Godwin calmed the women, stating that violence has never solved any problem, appreciated their peaceful protest and commended their courage and efforts but charged them to go home and stop further protest.
“As women in government we will approach the issue at the state level”.
First of all we can’t be sure about who people are 100% , we meet them, we have fun and then its when we don’t see the need to do a background check on the person ,because we have created this innocent and perfect of the person in our mind and the feelings that cloud our judgement and our emotions on everything
You might have been told about the past of that person before or what they do but the image you have creates disables you from believing that a person that can make you soo happy or make you feel soo good about yourself can turn and do such things, yes it happens
Now a male in his late 20s met a woman on social media that she has been talking with for quite a while, the two did meet ups ,had several dates and the man invited the lady over for a weekend at his place
See visiting for a weekend or even a day requires you to have a hand bag , to put the important things that you might need to protect yourself or help yourself if it happens that you have an unexpected period, that’s why most men don’t feel comfortable in searching a woman’s bag but sometimes it might be help you
The two spend a weekend together ,and everything went great until the man noticed that her bag had an unusual shape than before, when she came it was light and looked light it did not have much but when she was about to leave and went to the bathroom all of sudden it looked full , he opened it and found half of his groceries in the bag milk, salt , spice , knorrox and two pieces of chicken in the bag