Afraid that having children with her “ugly” but otherwise great husband would cause them to end up looking horrible, a Ghanian woman allegedly decided to secretly have four kids with her handsome ex-boyfriend.
African social media has been awash with news of a vain Ghanian woman who married a successful, hardworking, and caring man despite his less than adequate looks. The fact that he was ugly, by her standards, didn’t bother her much until they decided to try for a baby. She loved everything else about him, but she couldn’t risk giving birth to ugly children, so she always made sure to take birth control pills after sleeping with him. At one point, they went to a fertility clinic and they both turned out to be healthy, which the woman already knew, so in order not to raise her husband’s suspicion, she came out with a twisted yet ingenious plan…
The anonymous woman detailed her diabolical plan in a letter to Accra-based radio station Hitz FM, revealing that in order to make sure she gave birth to attractive children, and also make her husband happy, she decided to contact her handsome ex-boyfriend. He was also married, but he had always been promiscuous, so it wasn’t hard for the woman to convince him to have an affair.
In order to avoid unnecessary drama, the woman always told her lover that she had taken birth control, when in fact she had meant to get pregnant. She would then sleep with her husband as well, to make him think that he had impregnated her. This way, she was the only one who knew who her beautiful children’s father was.
The woman’s plan worked beautifully, and she was allegedly able to give birth to three attractive children, with the fourth on the way as well. Unfortunately, things got a little complicated recently, after her husband won an American visa lottery. She claims that the process also requires DNA tests for the applicant’s family at some point, which will reveal that the kids are not really his.
The concerned woman asked the radio show host how best to handle the situation, tell her husband the truth now, or wait until the test result comes in.
I was twenty years when I found out my mom was cheating on my dad. I was a first-year student at the university and had returned home for vacation.
I went to see my mom in her office one day and she left me for a meeting. Just some minutes after she left, I heard a beep sound, apparently coming from her phone. After a series of beeps, a call came through. I went to the phone and answered the call.
It was a gentleman seeking to have a word with her. I told him my mom wasn’t around so he hung up. It was then the messages on the phone caught my eyes. I didn’t intend to read but somehow I was drawn to it since it was already opened.
“Would you pass by after work tonight so we spend some time together?”
That was the message that caught my attention. I went back to previous messages to make sure I wasn’t making things up. Everything was out there! They’ve kissed, they’ve traveled on several occasions, they’ve had sex and they’ve been together for about three years. “How could that be?” I questioned myself. “Where has dad been all this while?”
Mom had been a great mom to me. I’m the only child and she never ceased to provide and be there for me but from that day going, I started looking back and assessing the relationship that existed between my mom and dad.
Dad is the reserved type. He rather acts than talk. My mom didn’t like talking a lot too but she was very outgoing and forthcoming. Between them, they didn’t talk a lot. My mom would usually spend the night watching TV and dad would be somewhere around the house minding his own business.
They had been able to live for twenty-two years being like that with each other so I guessed nothing was wrong. They never fought—I never saw them exchanging words so finding out my mom was cheating was a very big blow to me.
I needed someone to talk to.
Talking about it with my dad was out of the question. I feared he would be angry and trigger a divorce. I have a lot of wishes—having my parents divorced wasn’t one of those. Dad caught a hint of my mood and asked what the problem was. I couldn’t say the truth. He thought I was having boy issues and rather tried to convince me to share with him.
Yeah, I was having issues except that the person involved here was his own wife.
A week before school resumes, I gathered courage and had a discussion with mom…
“I know you are seeing someone else apart from dad,” I said. “And I know you’ve been seeing him for over three years. I know also that you’ve been traveling with him and spending time with him after work.”
Surprisingly she wasn’t stunned. She said, “You’ve been reading my text messages. I underestimated you. How long have you been doing that?” I kept repeating, “Mom why are you doing this to dad? You want to break up with him?”
She said nothing at first, she only kept staring at me. She answered, “You know only half of the story. Don’t judge me.” “I’m not judging you. I’m only asking you why.” She still looked calm. No sign of remorse or regrets.
“Are you planning on telling your dad?”
“If you don’t stop, I’ll have no option than to tell him.”
I thought that would put some fear in her but I was lying. She only said, “Let’s see what happens.”
I’ve been in school for about two months. I called my dad one night and asked him to give the phone to my mom to speak to her. He told me, “Your mom hasn’t returned from work and it’s already 10 pm.” I got triggered. It was like I was possessed.
I called mom’s phone several times after speaking with dad but she didn’t pick. She called the next morning to tell me she was busy. “Busy with your boyfriend I guess?” I shouted on the phone. She responded, “I’m still your mom, give me some respect, ok?” She hung up.
I was so angry I couldn’t think straight. My dad was a good man and to the best of my knowledge, he was playing his role as a husband impeccably well.
I went home that evening to spill the beans. As usual, mom hadn’t returned from work. Dad was in the dining hall eating rice he himself had cooked. I sat next to him and told him everything; “Mom is cheating on you. I found out from her messages. She comes home late because she goes to see the other man after work.”
He was quiet. He didn’t say a word. “Did you hear what I just said? Mom is chea…”
“I know!” He interrupted. “I’ve always known her ways from day one.”
“You what! Do you know? And you haven’t done anything about it?”
He stopped eating and turned to me, “I haven’t done anything about it? I have. The first time I caught her cheating, I had to warn the other man to stay away from her. And he did. Not too long after, she dated a guy who was 15 years younger than her. I used her own phone to send a pleading text to the guy to stay away from my wife. The guy left.
She pleaded for forgiveness and promised not to do it again. But you see, I can’t keep chasing flies off your mom. She can stay away from the flies if she wants to.”
I’ve lived with these two all my life and didn’t realize they were going through such hard times? Where have I been? I was a girl and maybe didn’t think too much of them but since that day, I respected my dad more and resented my mom with all I have.
I stopped picking her calls and refused to see her when she came around looking for me in school. She kept telling me, “You know only half of the story. Don’t judge me.”
So what is the other half of the story?
Dad insisted there was no other half story and if there was any, he wasn’t aware of it. Mom wouldn’t tell me what the other side of the story was. She claimed, “You are a child. Our daughter. You can’t know all of our struggles, especially the intimate ones. Leave us to fight our own issues.”
They never divorced and no one ever heard them fighting about this issue.
I grew up and took less interest in the way they lived their lives. After all, they were both ok so who was I to get angry on their behalf?
Dad died recently. He still wore his wedding ring with pride regardless of all the struggles. In my mom’s tribute to him, she called my dad a warrior. I knew what that meant. It takes only a warrior to live with a woman like her until the end.
But I wasn’t done until I got the “other half” of the story.
“When you were about four years old, your dad became impotent as a result of a sickness he was battling with. You were four and I was hitting twenty-five. That was the reason we had only you. For the rest of my life, I had to endure a sexless life with your Dad.
I tried. God knows I did my best. Your father became impotent and also resigned from any affair with me. He didn’t even sleep next to me or even held me during the cold hours of the dawn.
A gentleman found me beautiful at a point I thought I was decaying. He was all over me so I gave up resistance and had an affair with him. Your dad got a hint and drove him away. Another came my way. He was a boy but had the mind of a man. I had him and when I thought everything was going on fine, your dad happened.
He drove that one too away. He drove them away and yet starved me of his presence and connection. Your dad was a good father and a friend but he wasn’t a good husband. I wasted my youth with him and that came at a price.”
That is the other half of the story. Dad is gone and can’t defend himself but mom had no reason to lie. I concluded that mom was a bad bitch but she too had her reason. Who am I to judge?
Loneliness can make people do a lot of irrational things, and this has pushed some people to do things they regret forever all in the name of wanting to have fun, or get rid of their loneliness or boredom. This is why most people don’t like the idea of a distance relationship, because you can never be sure of what your partner is doing behind you.
Even the most faithful partners can make mistakes once in a while due to circumstances.
This was the case of a lady as she shared on Twitter today, according to her, her husband is a businessman and is never around, which she is cool with, but she has been growing lonely due to his constant travels. See her tweet below;
According to her story, the last time he husband traveled she had gone out to get a drink and she met her old boyfriend who offered to catch up. They ended up kissing, but she didn’t do more than that. Now she’s confused if she should tell her husband or keep it a secret as it was a mistake.
A lawyer has narrated a strange story about how a man spent 10 years in jail for killing his Landlord after he caught his wife sleeping with him, only for him to come out of Jail and find out that she has two boys and also nursing a third child for a neighbor.
The lawyer said that the man came home to discover that his wife was sleeping with his landlord and out of anger, he hit the landlord with a stool on the head and he died instantly.
After about five years of trial, he said that the man later regretted his actions, claiming that he does not know how many people his wife would be sleeping with now that he was in jail.
Following their argument in court that he was provoked to commit his actions, the judge gave him 10 years imprisonment, and when he came out of prison, he discovered that his wife already had two kids and nursing a third one for their neighbor.
The moral of the story being that one should not kill anyone because of a cheating partner.
The heart of man is desperately wicked! Mostimes you wonder if many humans were created by the same God. Why would anyone take a life he/she can’t give? Who does crime comfortably and thinks he/she will go Scot free? A popular news page on Facebook with the name Sapele Oghenekshared a story of an Okada man who took the life of his girlfriend over alleged infidelity.
The man identified as Happy is said to be a popular Commercial motorcyclist (Okada rider) in Oghara, Delta State and he is from Ogharefe. Reports have it that the family of the deceased noticed that she was missing few days ago and their prime suspect was her boyfriend who is an Okada rider. On murdering the girl, he quickly drank snipper to end his life, but with the quick intervention of others, he wasn’t able to take much of it and on getting to the hospital, his life was preserved
At the hospital, he was interrogated and he admitted that he killed his girlfriend after he suspected that she was having an affair with another man. He took the police to the spot where he had deposited the remains of the girl today and the police handcuffed him to a tree and took photos of him with the lifeless body.
The deceased is said to be from Oghareki and her family is a devoted Jehovah’s Witness that lived in Igbimidaka.
Mr Happy, now in police custody has admitted that he committed the said crime of murder and this act has been condemned by many Nigerians. Some are saying that the girl was even too young for him, judging from her photo.
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My spouse mosts likely to church every Friday, I followed her along with captured her with her pastor in a hotel space.
I’m a 42 years partner with three kids. We have actually been joined for 14 years with my other half. We made use of to head to the similar church. However the previous month my partner claimed she nolonger intends to go the church we utilized to go any longer. She informed me that she has located another pythonic church. I didn’t have trouble keeping that said given that I was nolonger mosting likely to church like I used to. I declared it’s alright as long as it is a superb church as well as she mores than happy.
Every Friday my better half would certainly inform me that there is a request solutions on Friday from 6pm to 10pm. I trusted her given that she would definitely take the youngsters with her as well as afterwards come back at around 10:30 pm. Fortunately I bumped in with her family member at neighborhood, she notified me that she is rushing house due to the truth that my partner is consisting of the youngsters whom she needs to look after while she continues to remain in church. I in fact did not state anything, I just specified ok I overlooked she educated. I was stunned because my partner educated me that she greater than most likely to church with them. I got unclear as well as followed her with an unidentified car the adhering to Friday. She went down the youngsters at her loved one. And additionally afterwards drove to South. I followed her progressively, when she got below, she struck the bell at eviction. A guy appeared as well as additionally used her a hug in addition to in addition a kiss. It was a heartbreaking moment to see, I was shattered. I drove gradually and also additionally pass them mosting likely to the space holding each various other. I parked the automobile at the vehicle washing and likewise stroll to the space. Luckily is expulsion was not locked as well as also the door.
I banged within, my loved one Yell believing it is burglary. When I went existed were, I found them with each various other. I angered along with meant to defeat her nevertheless the so called pastor was protecting. Individuals concerned work out the battle given that they heard noise. I left her in addition to additionally mosted likely to bring the children.
I’m so Depressed , I really enjoy her. What can I execute in this scenario? Leave your own suggestions in the remarks as well as additionally Don’t forget to Like, Share As Well As Click the Follow to button ahead.
Love is a beautiful thing especially if you have found yourself a loving, caring partner who has the same values and goals as you when it comes to relationships. It has been said that in order for a relationship to make it there has to be honesty and respect but some people don’t really stay honesty and respectful in relationships.
Most enter relationships with intentions of benefiting something from it :Money, doing the deeds due to lust and everything that they might want to benefit hence people end up heartbroken and want nothing to do with relationships anymore.
A heartbreaking story about a woman who found out that her husband has been cheating on her decided to confront the side chick and kindly beg her to stay away from him as they have a family together and doesn’t want her kids to get heartbroken if they divorced.
People have said that its never a good idea to confront the other woman when your husband or boyfriend cheats on you, rather confront the one who was unfaithful to you because side chicks tend to be very disrespectful as they don’t feel the pain that you are going through as the results of your partners cheating.
The woman took the numbers from her husband’s phone texted the woman who shockingly responded with five (5) reasons why she will never leave her husband alone.
Operatives of Rivers Police Command have arrested a mother of five, Ihuoma Amadi, for allegedly Kinikanwo, her husband to death with a broken bottle during a fight by the couple over allegation of infidelity in Port Harcourt, the state capital.
The 47- year- old late Kinikanwo, a former Supervisory Councillor at Obio-Akpor local government area, Rivers State, was said to have been stabbed multiple times with a broken bottle by the wife who left him to bleed to death in the course of the fight.
Our correspondent learnt that the late Kinikanwo and Ihuoma, have been having constant quarrel which usually resulted to fighting over allegation that the wife had been having an affair with a man living along their street.
The wife has always denied the allegation.
However, it was learnt that last Thursday, the couple were again involved in fighting, during which the wife used a broken bottle to stab her husband multiple times.
Kinikanwo was said to have died around 1 am at their Nkporlu-Rumuigbo residence as a result of the injuries sustained from the stabs.
The younger brother to the late Councillor, Victor Akandu Amadi, said his late brother was killed by his wife according to information given to them by the 15-year-old daughter of the couple when they rushed to his residence early Thursday morning.
Victor said the daughter told family members that her parents were fighting due to the accusation of infidelity her father leveled against her mother.
He added that the corpse of the deceased has been deposited at morgue in the University of Port Harcourt Teaching Hospital(UPTH).
Spokesman for Rivers Police Command, Nnamdi Omoni, who confirmed the incident said the State Commissioner of Police, Joseph Mukan, has ordered an immediate investigation on the matter.
Nowadays, infidelity in marriage is becoming rampant. Some partner regards it as a business, something not worth punishable.
In fact, due to it nature some people claimed to have “unwritten license” the action of the quotation in the statement the writer mean is that, Marriage partners sometimes conspired to make their wives attracts men for their personal interest.
Husband of a wife one Hafisat Habu reported a man to the police at Zing Divisional headquarters, Taraba State Command, that he caught her with him in one hidden corner at their Village area in Lamma district.
Hafisat Habu confessed to the police that Hammadama Abubakar has been following her for a while now, telling her that he is really in love with her. Before the day her husband caught them, he usually approached her to accept him as her lover. According to her “He even promise me that he is ready to pay everything my husband has paid on me as dowry.
Hafisat is not the first wife of her own husband, according to her statement.
Hammadama Abubakar accepted that he is guilty of the allegations made against him. He pleaded before the police that he won’t repeat it again.
<p class="has-drop-cap has-vivid-red-color has-text-color" value="<amp-fit-text layout="fixed-height" min-font-size="6" max-font-size="72" height="80">According to her husband, when he saw them together, he got provoked and slapped her on her face. Which led to one side of her Swollen eyes. She is still responding to treatment while in police Custody with her Partner. According to her husband, when he saw them together, he got provoked and slapped her on her face. Which led to one side of her Swollen eyes. She is still responding to treatment while in police Custody with her Partner.
What is your view here, is it right for a husband to beat his wife in the public without investigating the matter first?
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